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Bruce (BJ) Patrick Toal Jr.

September 21, 1993 ~ April 10, 2017 (age 23) 23 Years Old
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Message from Jody Floor
April 26, 2017 1:25 PM

I live across the street from where BJ and Zack lived.  Thank you for sharing your sons with us in Columbia.  BJ was an amazing, compassionate young man, and will be missed.
Message from Gregor Mackenzie
April 26, 2017 7:03 AM

It is with great sadness that we at Xcel heard about BJ's passing. He will continue to grace our walls, together with his peers, in the prime of his wrestling career at Troy Christian. Our strongest support and wishes to everyone. From Greg Mackenzie and the Xcel staff
Message from Nina Byler
April 21, 2017 8:49 PM

Dearest Bruce, Catherine, and family,

Please know we will be keeping you all in prayer.  Wanted to express how beautifully put was the brochure about Bj -- his faith and his heart for he Lord.  Praying for God to continue to keep you strengthened by his love, joy, and peace.  Love you all, our dear precious family in the Lord.  Please if there is anything we can do for you guys, do not hesitate to contact us.

Because of Jesus,
The Byler Family
Message from PAULA HARSHBARGER
April 21, 2017 4:58 PM

A GARDEN PATH was sent by LLoyd, Paula .

Celebrating a Beautiful Life.

Message from Len and Judy Hubbard
April 21, 2017 3:17 PM

To the Toal family, our hearts go out to you at such a difficult time.  Please know that we are keeping you in our thoughts and our prayers.
Message from Barb Depweg
April 21, 2017 1:38 PM

Dearest Bruce, Catherine, Jonathon, Zach and Lilly. I am so sorry about BJ. I am faced with death everyday doing the job I do, but this was hard to comprehend. I relied on my spiritual teachings that say that BJ was given a certain number of breaths when he was born. And even though we who knew and loved him feel that number was too low, he completed his work here on earth. It is God's perfect will. I can't imagine the pain in your heart right now. You are a strong family. You may not see it now but this dark period is just a chapter in your journey. You will come out of this even stronger and filled with more love for the Lord than you thought imaginable. Rely on the love and ministry you have already been given to walk you thru this. I wanted to come and give you my love and support today, but I have a previous commitment I can't get out of. I send you spiritual hugs from a distance. PLEASE continue to Luv the journey! God Bless all of you!  All my love, Barb
Message from Birdie Gambrel
April 19, 2017 9:16 AM

Bruce and family,
I am so sorry for your loss.  I am glad he knew the Lord.  May God bless your family. Birdie Gambrel
Message from John & Kathy Westerheide
April 18, 2017 8:31 PM

Bruce, Catherine & Family,

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son BJ.  Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time.
Message from Lockington United Methodist Church
April 18, 2017 1:12 PM

Bruce, Catherine and Family,

We extend our prayers to you both and your family. My our Heavenly Father comfort you and give you peace.

Your extended family,
Lockington UMC
Message from Michael & Billie Weber
April 18, 2017 11:21 AM

Mike & I understand why BJ was such a special person.
He came from a very special family.
We love you guys and will be standing in the gap praying in the months ahead.
Love you much.
Michael & Billie Weber
Message from Jerome Bey
April 17, 2017 7:47 AM

RAY OF SUNSHINE was sent by Versailles Wrestling Coaches.

Versailles Wrestling

Message from Leila Halligan
April 16, 2017 9:25 PM

Dear Toal Family,

Our sincere sadness to you all at this very difficult time! The loss of your loving Bruce has to be terribly difficult to comprehend. He was such an outstanding young man of which you all must have been extremely proud. Proud also of yourselves for the love, guidance and influence you all had on Bruce.

I am a friend of Junes from Medford, NJ. If June is any example of the wonderful family you all are , for this you should be extremely proud. I always admired June's strong belief in her faith and the Lord to guide her through the difficult times. Her belief in the power of prayer made me an even stronger believer through the difficult times.  

Even though Bruce was much too young to leave you all and his life, we can only pray and believe that he is in a better place free of any pain and suffering. He is free of any lasting injuries that could have made his life as we know it, very difficult.
For this we can only thank God for making the best decision.

My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family in hopes as time goes on your grief and sadness will somehow start to lessen. I hope the wonderful memories you are left with will carry you through until you see Bruce again.

Blessings to you all,

Leila Halligan
Message from Dennis Greve
April 16, 2017 6:40 AM

I am so sorry for your loss.  I didn't know your son, but if he was anything like his father, he was a strong and good  man. Dennis Greve
Message from Bud and Ann Alexander
April 15, 2017 1:30 PM

Our hearts go out to the family of BJ Toal  Bruce and Catherine We are so sorry for this tragic loss to you and your family! We know that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord! How wonderful to know that your Son is now present with the Lord! We love you, and we are praying for you! Bud and Ann
Message from Sharon Long
April 15, 2017 1:14 PM

My thoughts are prayers are with the family at this time. Be assured that you will see him again in Glory. Love you all.
Message from John and Fran Tullar
April 15, 2017 8:31 AM

We are praying for you and your family and trusting God to sustain you with His comfort and peace and love.
Message from Cynthia McRill
April 14, 2017 11:57 PM

My sincere condolences to Bruce, Catherine and family.  What a tragic loss for you; so glad BJ knew Jesus.  He is now in the Presence!
Message from Heidi Young-Kleiber
April 14, 2017 11:44 PM

Prayers to you and your family.
Message from Peter & Valerie Handleton
April 14, 2017 10:49 PM

Dear Catherine, Bruce, June and family, We are so sorry at the terrible loss of your dear BJ. He sounded like a special, young man. We are praying for you and your family and are sending you our love. May the Lord be very near and dear to you and your family at this time. Jesus loves you. Love, Peter & Valerie (June's friends from NJ)
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